Premature ejaculation yet very frequent Taboos have left a lot of peoples in the shadow. Ashamed of not to insure, not to be performing, early ejaculatory men are often reluctant to talk about it. So here are 10 important questions about Premature Ejaculation revolving in every men’s mind.
1 – What is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is called premature ejaculation when a man ejaculates too quickly. But what does it mean too quickly? What is the norm? Is it a matter of a minimum time, a number of back and forth movements? In fact, only the estimate of the man and his partner is important: one speaks of premature ejaculation if the ejaculation occurs before one or the other wishes it. Ejaculation can sometimes occur even before vaginal penetration.
Do not have premature ejaculation, is be able to decide the time of ejaculation. It’s having the ability to delay the moment of orgasm.
2 – Is there a difference between Fast ejaculation and premature ejaculation?
Both terms are used interchangeably. One can also say “fast ejaculation”.
3 – Are many men suffering from premature ejaculation?
More than one man in three faces this difficulty! In the Global Sexuality Survey conducted in 2016, 37% of men reported having rapid ejaculation often or sometimes. This figure joins those of the international literature on this subject (36 to 38%).
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4 – Is premature ejaculation a disease?
No, it’s not a disease. So far it was not known exactly why some men easily controlled their ejaculation while others could not achieve it. Recent research suggests that cerebral neuromediators play a role in the ability to delay the time of ejaculation. Stress and anxiety accelerate ejaculation without being the only factors responsible for premature ejaculation.
5 – Is the problem of premature ejaculation hereditary?
Preliminary work tends to demonstrate this. But today no study has been published on this subject nor to confirm or to invalidate this hypothesis.
6 – Does circumcision help solve the problem of premature ejaculation?
It has been thought for a long time but today it is known that circumcision does not change anything for premature ejaculation. The idea was doubtless to diminish the sensibility of the glans. This slightest excitability having to curb the occurrence of ejaculation. In fact, there are as many premature ejaculators in circumcised men as in others.
7 – Are there drugs to treat this problem?
Yes, some antidepressants have been shown to be effective in delaying ejaculation. But if they allow to treat the symptom, they do not treat the cause of premature ejaculation. Therefore, once treatment is stopped, the problem recurs. Some men find the effect of these drugs insufficient, the sexual intercourse always appearing to them too short. You should know that these drugs only delay ejaculation. The most widely used drug is Deroxat®. Recently, dapoxetine (marketed under the name of PRILIGY®) has received a marketing authorization for the treatment of premature ejaculation in men. Aged between 18 and 64 years.
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8 – Are there any “little tricks” to delay ejaculation? Must we think of anything else? To masturbate before intercourse? Chain a second report or breathe somehow?
All these stuff can work but they have their limitations. Thinking about other things can decrease sexual arousal and delay the time of ejaculation. But if there is no more sexual arousal it is also the erection which risks to suffer and without erection the sexual intercourse can also be interrupted prematurely. Having sexual intercourse after a first ejaculation (either by masturbation or by sexual intercourse) is a possible solution provided that you are young. Indeed, it must not be forgotten that men have a refractory period. This period is only 5 to 30 minutes towards 20 years, but increases with age. There comes a time when it would take 2 to 3 hours for a new erection to be possible.
9 – Are there other therapeutics than medications to deal with this problem?
Yes and the methods of learning to control ejaculation have proved their worth. But it requires perseverance and repetition of exercises with a partner. For good training, chess is very rare. Attention, some vulgarized methods are incomplete. For example, tightening the penis during sexual intercourse (squeeze). Never allowed to treat fast ejaculation. Many Therapists provide you an interactive program that will allow you to spot the premonitory sensations to the orgasm and to control the control of your ejaculation. But if you want to have a more personalized follow-up, do not hesitate to consult a sexologist.
10 – Can a woman accept to live with a man victim of premature ejaculation?
Of course! If one considers the percentage of men suffering from this problem, many women are also confronted with it. Many couples have learned to live with it. There are many ways to give pleasure, coitus being only one of these. And let us not forget that women as well as men do not choose their partner on the sole criterion of their sexual performance.
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