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10 Important Habits to Adobt for Child’s Emotional Education.
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January 12, 2017
10 Important Habits to Adobt for Child’s Emotional Education.

Whether on the teat, spanking, communicating with a teenager or even taking meals, there is no shortage of ideas about educating the Children! What do you think? How to respond to various situations?

 

We must let Baby cry so that it does not become capricious.

The baby is not capricious at birth. It is usually around 18-24 months at the time of the 2-year crisis that the child enters the opposition period. In this way, the child means that he exists as different from his parents, with his own desires, and so he seeks to assert his personality by expressing his disagreement, sometimes by angry and capricious. However: it is not because your child is in the opposition period that he must be allowed to make anger. If the child is more likely to do so at that age, this does not justify them.

Before this age, a baby does not have the internal resources to deal with what hurts him: hunger, cold, thirst, pain. He is helpless in the face of his distress, the affection which the parent bears to him by cradling him in his arms, by cuddling him, helps to reassure him. This love will enable him gradually to face his anxieties and be less worried. So do not let a baby cry for fear of making a capricious one but rather answer his call to relieve it.

Finally, we must distinguish the cry of 5-7 PM which has the vocation of relaxing, to expel a little nervousness of the day, the babbling at bedtime and the cry related to the deep malaise, something that Does not go.

 

You have to talk about everything with children.

 

Boredom is counterproductive.

Some parents tend to believe that their child must be constantly stimulated to ensure a rich and varied education. Then the courses of sport, music and the exits to the cinema. Then the schedule of the child resembles that of a minister. All this to escape boredom, passivity. Too much stimulation prevents imagination, and boredom is a good thing. Leaving time to a child without offering him any particular activity means giving him the ability to dream, to imagine, to find to do nothing, is also to know how to ask oneself, to be appeased.

 

Communication to adolescence is impossible.

The child, like the teenager, needs a secret garden. It builds its personality and it autonomies itself. We must not be vexed with this separation. However, this distance is not necessarily synonymous with a break in communication. Many teenagers talk to their parents, it depends on the quality of the relationship and the way in which the speech is welcomed. If a parent is in reproach, reprimand or aggressiveness as soon as his teen opens his mouth, He will no longer want to confide in him, talk to him about his life and ask if you talk to your teenager. Apart from the question of his notes. Communication is therefore possible and more necessary than ever in the education of your child, including adolescence.
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A spanking has never hurt anyone.

This is a sentence that you have surely heard. The parents who use it do not think to do badly. But you must avoid spanking your child as much as possible. If you ask him not to beat others, to retain his aggressiveness, it’s hard to be credible by tapping him. Adults are more likely to control their emotions and gestures, Parents say they spank because they are overwhelmed and do not know how to be heard differently. We must limit the child upstream, before the situation becomes uncontrollable, in particular by excluding him/her in his/her room. Let us project in the future: the parents certainly do not want that their child later agrees to be banged by anyone: his comrades, his spouse. You must teach your child to be respected, not to allow anybody to harm him. Learning by example.



Children must fall asleep alone.

It is sometimes said that children have to learn to fall asleep alone, at the risk of soliciting their parents all the time. Yet, adults can help their children find sleep more serenely. The solution? Bedtime ritual, emotional security and object-presenting. This secures the child. Nothing pleases the baby as much as the rituality of the daily rhythm. Establish rituals like the story, the blanket and the kiss of the parents and minimize the surprises. Surround him with much tenderness. And finally, the enormous factor that promotes sleep is to present it to bed as an extraordinarily joyful event. While lying down, do not hesitate to keep smiling, while indicating in a very enthusiastic way the program which is preparing: It is time to make sleep, you will make many dreams. Do not put fears in its place. These rituals, by their regularity and lightness, make the nocturnal separation more banal and easy to accept.

 

Sociability is innate.

Not all children are equal in the matter. The character of the child matters a great deal. Some are rather timid and prefer to stay in their corner. Others (more at ease) look for company. But that’s not all. Sociability also depends on what parents encourage. If they are socially isolated, they do not have many friends, which they do not receive, it can be more difficult for them, Child to acquire social codes.

Living in a community encourages the child to take his or her place in a group. Those who are kept in a nursery are brought into contact with other young people and come into contact with them.

Want to develop your child’s sociability? Take him to the park, to the toy library, public places in which he will frequent get in touch with other children. If the child is shy, the parent can accompany him to help him take the first step towards other children. Let’s try this, “I present Edgar to you, he is 4 years old and he brought a bucket and a shovel today. Would you like to play with him?” Or let your child say it while remaining at his side to reassure him. The child feels that his parent is benevolent, which encourages his socialization.

 

The Teat is harmful.

The teat is often pointed at the finger. However, sucking is a reflex in the baby. The excitation of the erogenous zone of the mouth causes an undoubted calming effect. The suction secretes endomorphins hormones of well-being, that soothe baby. If he feels this need, so satisfy his desire by giving him the pacifier.

Do not worry, most children end up stopping the teat in kindergarten. To help him, limit his use to the night and the nap. As you go, encourage your child to express what he feels by words, drawings rather than sucking his pacifier.

 

Sleeping in the same room as your child makes separation difficult.

It depends on the situation and if it is a single mother who wants to fill the vacant place of an adult, it puts the child in a very delicate position and yes the separation will be difficult. If it is a matter of having a bed of co-sleeping attached to his to facilitate the breastfeeding of the first weeks, then there is no problem of separation to be feared. It is more to find a solution Comfortable for mothers and babies, and the same is true when the child is very sick.

On the other hand, out of question to let a child sleep in a complex of Oedipus between his parents. Indeed, towards 3-5 years, the little girl seeks to take the place of its mother and the little boy that of his father. Sleeping with children at that time would only endorse these unconscious fantasies of seduction towards the opposite-sex parent and then the parent’s bed belongs to them.

 

You have to finish your plate.

What parent did not face his child sulking his plate? What attitude to adopt then? Many insist that the child finish his meal. It is proposed not to replace the contents of the plate with anything else. For example, to give chips in place of the zucchini, to make the child wait until dessert to eat at the same rate that the rest of the family will be able to take a dessert. If he does not finish his plate, do not worry. A child does not let himself starve, The next time, reduce the quantities, it is better that he asks for more than he cannot finish his plate Present the dish in a playful way or with light spices like paprika, cumin. In any case, to avoid meals becoming a source of conflict, do not make a big deal.
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