Pregnancy awakens many feelings, emotions and is generally accompanied by comments from the entourage. Anodyne in appearance, they can be misinterpreted or badly lived by the future mother. So here are some words not to mind if you are a pregnant woman and how to react if you are confronted with this kind of comments.
Be careful not to take too many pounds, otherwise you risk to keep them!
In recent years, the weight of the future mother is controlled, and it is common practice now that doctors recommend not to take more than 12 kilos. Eat twice better and not twice as much!
We are far from the time when the pregnant woman was encouraged to eat for two! But every woman and even every pregnancy is different. If monitoring your weight is consistent with the state of health (yours and that of the baby), this should not become an obsession. Reason, but not frustration! Also, do not overemphasize this comment, which has become commonplace.
You will see the inconvenience of pregnancy, it’s nothing beside childbirth.
Everyone is going through his memories (and not necessarily the best!). You should be aware of the possible consequences of pregnancy, such as the urge to go to the bathroom frequently, hemorrhoids, skin problems. They are possible but not systematic symptoms and you should not hesitate to talk to your doctor who will have solutions and will reassure you. The best is to avoid conversations on this subject and to flee the good friends who will make you A catastrophic account worthy of a horror film of their childbirth, their episiotomy, with many details more or less fantasized.
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Is your twin pregnancy natural or an IVF?
It is true that at present, the use of IVF results in more twin pregnancies. But whether you have an IVF or your pregnancy is familial multiple, this question is very indiscreet and If you want to tell your story and your difficulties in getting pregnant, this question is obviously curious, and although it is not a priori malicious, it can make you feel uncomfortable. In this case, simply express your desire not to address your privacy.
With this beautiful chest, it is your husband/companion who must be appreciated!
The growing breast is one of the first signs of pregnancy, and the small breasts are often delighted with this physical change, but husbands / companions can appreciate this metamorphosis. The subject can be disturbing since it indirectly affects your sexuality. It is best to respond to this kind of reflection by a pirouette with humor and lightness.
Now that you are pregnant, you can forget the little pleasures (sport, cheese, alcohol, sweets).
The pregnancy is accompanied by a few restrictions, but always with a view to preserving your health and that of your baby. These months without alcohol and cheese pass quickly and try to live it positively. It is not a disease, it is a passing state and that brings so much satisfaction, especially if one focuses on his future baby.
This reflection perhaps comes from a person turned towards himself, who thinks only of the negative consequences and envious of your happiness. You should know to keep the smile and respond positively.
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Are you planning to keep this baby?
No other answer than humor to such a question, especially if your state is already visible and above all you do not have to justify whatever your answer is. Do not hesitate to ask the person who asks you this question to be more discreet and benevolent towards you.
Anyway, whatever you put, you will not look like anything other than a big can.
Pregnancy is no longer synonymous with shapeless, sad and mostly discreet clothes and the time when one hides one’s belly under ample, comfortable and shapeless dresses. It is possible to use accessories and dare colors. In addition, it is good to be convinced for morale, it is enough to have a look at the specialized shops (And trends) future mothers or maternity ranges of the major brands. Not to count the evening dresses or special wedding pregnant woman.
Is this the last one you intend to continue?
Another very intrusive and indiscreet question to which even the future parents cannot often answer! The construction of a family is done gradually, although some couples already have an idea of the number of children but sometimes it happens that even after the ideal number of children is reached, one wants a little one. Just as some couples do not want any more children after the first for various reasons (Difficult pregnancy, difficulties in the couple, professional and economic incidences) Serious answer (yes, no, or do not know) or humorous, you have to decide.
You know that after 35 years, it is a late pregnancy and you must make hyper gaffe.
It is a fact, there are more and more pregnancies after 35 years, for different reasons: women work, couples prefer to wait to be physically installed before becoming parents, some couples sometimes have to resort to treatments, interventions before they have a child. These late pregnancies are particularly well monitored by the medical profession and progress in prevention and screening makes it possible to live serenely a pregnancy even after 35. In addition, at this age, maturity allows you to live your pregnancy differently and fully, all of which you can put forward, if you feel like discussing the subject or you can reassure your interlocutor by arguing that everything is fine.
Did you think about the impact on your professional development?
Despite the progress made towards gender equality in the world of work, there are still strong ideas on the consequences of maternity on the professional career. A mother is less available to work, for schedules, travel. These phrases are often heard in companies or more hypocritically, if these sentences are not clearly pronounced, they are thoughts and between a young mother and a single man, the choice for a promotion requiring frequent trips, the choice will be made by you.
If you have decided to have a child, very often you put aside your career plan for a few months. It does not mean that you will miss your professional life. And of course you have thought about the consequences on your work, but with organization and help, there is no reason why you cannot keep your work and family life together. Keep your trust and do not hesitate to get closer to professional women’s networks if needed.
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