Cohabitation is an important step for couples. Most couples do not go beyond a common year of life and all admit that life together is not easy, especially at first. Here are some points to discuss with your spouse before you leap together. Read carefully, this can save you a lot of conflict!
How to manage expenses?
The easiest way is to open a joint bank account for everything related expenses of everyday life. But what bills will you have to pay by this money? How much each will add and how often? This is actually determine what expenses are considered common and which are not.
Live and for how long?
If one dreams of a loft in the city centre and the other want a small house in the suburbs, you have to choose. You both must determine that what kind of dwelling best fits your current needs and how long you intend to stay there. Another important point to address, not the least, make the choice between buying or renting.
Maximize your free time.
Until now, you share your time between friends, hobbies, family, rest and torque. If you live together, then you should know how to optimize this free time, so as to have time for everything to be together and do household chores. Your habits will no longer be of individuals but they becomes to be of a couple with still a personal space for each.
The relationship with in-laws.
Relations with in-laws are generally more frequent and intense, once you live together. Whereas before, the Sunday family meal was considered a personal moment for everyone. but now, you both want to go as a couple. So this is a topic to discuss and clarify.
For the welfare of the couple, it is important that everyone has their own space. Now you no longer live alone, you must take into account each other and know what times you can practice your own activities.
The sharing of tasks.
Sharing household tasks is one of the sources of the most common conflict within a couple living under the same roof. The best way to avoid arguments is to put the record straight from the start. This does not necessarily mean that both have to do exactly the same number of things, especially if, for example, one of two working full time outside the home and the other at half-time. However, you need to invest both in the maintenance of the house in which you live.
Go live together is not necessarily the step before the wedding, even if some people consider it so. Did you discuss the topic together? It is important to talk about, if one wants to marry and the other does not even think about it. Start by asking each other what it means and involves the lives of two, for him/her.
What you expect from life of being living together?
Why do you live together? What do you expect from this experience? Spend more time together, more compromises, live as you like, be more independent, to have a common project. Your projects must be compatible to that cohabitation is going on successfully.
Some habits of your “life back” are already installed as your culinary preferences and preferences for the races. This conversation is not essential because your habits come naturally but you agree on some bases relative to the races is not too much.
Living together is one more step in the relationship. In fact, you function as a married couple but without the papers to prove it. It is possible that everyone has a different idea of the commitment assumed cohabitation. If you have taken the plunge, it would be good to talk about the next steps concerning your relationship.
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