There has been marriage, cohabitation or just companionship, the question remains: what role to give to the person with whom we shared a piece of life when story completes?
Ideally, one should be able to remain friends because we loved. Some would think about in this landslide. But this requires sacrifice.
Can we stay close to our ex? This is rarely the case, at least in first Relationship, especially if the separation is not done by mutual agreement. However, some succeed when conditions of their separation are not too stormy or over time when the storm has subsided.
The “Culprit” is the other.
Very often obstacle to reconciliation is that everyone defers to the other responsible for the break. If He/She left us for other, He/She is “guilty” for having betrayed. Everything is permissible but he (she) must pay the price, literally and figuratively! It is not uncommon that children are taken to witness the misdeeds of the other and pushed to take sides. Few separated couples manage to overcome their resentments and maintain a healthy relationship enough to protect the children from discord.
As for the one that breaks it often has no other means to stop feeling guilty, than lend all the faults to each other. We disappointed, deceived our expectations and provided that the other is aggressive!
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Yet we like each other.
A friendly relationship can be built. It is necessary that the emotions subside, usually which ends up. We were not completely miserable because we have knitted a piece of life with him (her). This could not be done without some complicity, love or at least desire. But the object of all this did not become completely opposite. Once emotions calmed, and preferably each rethink on its side, it is often possible to make sense of things. Every day we becomes more unbearable whose consequence are end up with distances. It can even be amused and not be concerned that it has never ceased to please us.
I love you, me Either.
After the storm or when the separation is voluntary, it sometimes develops between two ex a unique fashion relationship, midway between love and friendship. Something comfortable and happy, but not without ambiguity. It is not always easy to find the imprint of old cuddly moments because the old can play unexpected turns. Return Flames also not excluded! Separations sometimes allow people to become mature and then recover. The risk for those who cannot put certain limits is nothing build new; amorous friendship is somehow fill the void without which there is no place for other. Avoid this trap assumes that each of the former is well clear about expectations and know which distance to keep. Then a new link can build only friendly one.
Rarely separates into happiness.
Few separating couples serenely and sincerely want to know the greatest happiness with another. Resentment, jealousy, fear, hatred, sometimes more often the appointment as tenderness and complicity. More the relationship was intense and passionate, so greater the risk. Not only at the time of the break but sometimes long after, especially if there are children. More than half of divorces are granted by both parties. Divorce comes as spouses clash in fights, around children, money to pay to keep the house or the dog or cat!
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