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How do couples feels at 30 ?
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December 2, 2016
How do couples feels at 30 ?

How do 30-year-olds experience the feeling of love? Couples between 27 and 31 years old give us the way they build their relationship, while trying to maintain the flame of the beginnings. Also the experts analyze them and review their relationship.

 

The vision of love at 30.

“For us, love is natural and simple. From the moment I met Naveen, I knew I wanted to be with him,” says Maya (29, a couple for five years). “We both have strong characters but we are able to make concessions and communicate”. For Naveen, love is an alchemy. “What I like about Maya is her strong personality”.

Simple and natural, love can also be made of concessions. Sanjay and Julie (30, a couple for twelve years) evoke their different interests: “We do not have the same tastes of film, so we do 50 / 50. We choose the film in turn. Does not like the comedies in love. In the end, I go there to please him. Sanjay says for his companion, “Love has something positive in the sense that each one is going to pull the other up.” I’m sometimes nervous, she soothes me, and she’s a little lax so I boost her. ”

 

The analysis of Expert:

“In my opinion, in the couple, there is more a question of compromise than of concessions: the compromise carries more the idea of ​​a common agreement in the respect of oneself and the other. That a person has had to give in. On the other hand, by finding a point of agreement, they both win. This notion of communication in the couple is important, it is based on expression and listening to needs and expectations of each one”.
Read Also: The Real Enemies Of The Couple!

 

The vision of the couple at 30 years.

“We’re together, we do not take our heads, we’re single, but when we get together, we organize things,” Maya said.

Moreover, as her boyfriend explains, they are not glued to each other. “I work as a team and our free time does not necessarily fall at the same time. And most of the time, we’re pretty lonely.” Communicating to relativize worries at work or family is the key to the progress in the couple like us. “In fact, we are companions and more because affinities between us, it is intuitive. For me, my professional career is important, but I always make decisions with respect to being a couple.”

 

The analysis of expert.

“Today, we speaks about the couple’s image in the way that everyone can have different social identities whether they are male or female, and the different relational spheres (friendly, family and professional) are also invested”. The couple seems less exclusive, each one can feed on different spaces and all this benefits the couple: a woman can at the same time be a flourishing in her home, being a dynamic and desirable wife”.
Check this out: 10 Things To Know Before You Live Together!



Sex at age 30.

For Sanjay, at 30, living his sexuality is much easier. “Sentimentally and sexually you are advanced, you dare to do things you did not dare before”.

In fact, according to a study published in 2002 in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, the thirties would be at the zenith of libido. Researchers William Tooke of the University of New York in Plattsburgh demonstrated that the peak of sexual desire is between 30 and 34 years in women, whether single or married. But she would tend to prefer sex in a long relationship and with a partner she has come to know. Several explanations are put forward. It is a time when they are fertile and therefore more inclined to become mothers. Moreover, in their thirties, women learn to reach orgasm by masturbation and the increase in sexual desire may be due to the sensation of freedom to be able to define their own sexuality. The peak of sexual desire in women may vary according to generations, culture, and origin and of course the period of ovulation. According to the same study, the peak of male desire would be around the age of 25.

 

The commitment to 30 years: the choice to live together.

“The choice to live together in an apartment has made our couple come true,” says Sanjay. “I need this contact in the morning on waking up, getting called at lunchtime and evening and even more since we are settled”.

Julie adds. “The next step is to have a child.” Engaging in a child together is a true proof of love: I am willing to do it with you. No matter what happens. We’re going to raise her together for life, “she says.

 

And Marriage?

For Sanjay, marriage is a little secondary but Julie holds it and she has a symbolic vision. The marriage concerns especially our couple, it is a commitment through which one proves that one loves oneself. For her, love is also something that is maintained. We must not fall asleep and pay attention to seduction, she insists.

For Parveen and Nita, marriage is an obvious proof of love. “On the day of her birthday, I decided to ask her in marriage. It was a serious event” says Parveen. For Nita, the blessing is symbolic because it brings together the four pillars supported by love: fidelity, having children, indissolubility and freedom. “Marriage is a commitment that you choose freely and you cannot dissolve,” she says.

 

The Analysis of Expert.

“As far as marriage is concerned, people are aware that the couple is not feeling secured during live-in. But symbolically, marriage is something that will protect against the threats of separation. Marriage reinforces what we want to put personally in the couple: the arrival of a child redefines things in a relationship, constantly reinventing oneself, crossing the crises inherent in the couple’s life through the redevelopments that are being created.
Check this out: The Signs That It’s (too) Long As You Are Together

 

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