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Mother-daughter: rivals or friends?
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January 27, 2017
Mother-daughter: rivals or friends?

From breaks to reunions, the mother-daughter couple is inseparable. Whether they take each one for their rank or they lend themselves to their T-shirts, their relationship is complex. From love to hate, the point on this link not always easy to live.

At weekends, ​​mother and daughter are excited to go for shopping together. Sometimes, For Daughter, her mother is responsible for all her misfortunes. Complies or at war, mothers and daughters form a particular couple whose feelings range from love to hate. But rarely indifference. For the mother, giving birth to a female baby is the feeling of having reproduced completely. This initial love carries the germs of a complex relationship.

 

Escape from Mother.

For Females, the path to conquer her feminine identity remains more arduous than that of the masculine identity. The mother is a source of all-powerful life. She is the first object of absolute, fusional love and the little boy knows that he is different from his mother and can escape him. The girl, on the other hand, perceives herself in a sexual similarity and quickly feels like a reproduction, a miniature of her mother. She will struggle for a long time.

In this bond to the mother, again, a girl is not a boy. To become a woman in her skin and not to remain the daughter of her mother, she will implement various strategies, including the famous complex of Oedipus (the famous attempt to seduce the father). An approach that illustrates the desire to differentiate herself from the mother, often with consequences. This can distort their relationships for years.



Mother-daughter complicity at the key.

Mothers are full of praise for her daughter: For them their daughter is brilliant, funny and really pretty, it is from heart. In some mothers-to-daughter couples, the connection is obvious and natural. The girl knows her mother will always be there. Everyone is aware of the love they feel for each other. Although girls do not systematically adopt the values ​​of their elders, although they are committed to passing them on, they show great admiration for their mothers. Loving, cultivated and strong. A real complicity that translates into discussions: drugs, sex, contraception, work, politics, so many previously taboo themes that are openly discussed today.

 

Mother-daughter: when it’s war!

Especially in adolescence, conflict is often the rule. This key moment of existence is difficult: to become a woman, one has to get away from one’s mother. The conflict then allows the young teenager to leave her position as a child and take her place. A step hard to cross for some to believe this common mentality that “My mother always avoided the confrontation and it was difficult to build a connection with her.”

In other cases, mothers suffer from the syndrome of eternal youth. To let their daughter become adult, represents a real danger: that of seeing oneself old. They obviously prefer to remain eternal girlfriends and behave as such. Becoming oneself in this relationship requires at the same time that one adapts oneself to this datum while distancing oneself.
Important: 10 Important Habits To Adobt For Child’s Emotional Education.
 

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